Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Friendship: My dear friends , for you !


There are three types of relationships in a man’s life.
1. Intellectual: There are relationships of the intellect, which cannot be very deep. The relationship between a teacher and a student is this type of relationship.
2. Love: There are relationships of love, which are deeper than the intellect. The relationships between a mother and child, brothers, husband and wife, are these types of relationships: they arise from the heart.
2. Friendship:): Then there are even deeper relationships that emerge from the navel. I call the relationships that result from the navel ‘friendships’. They go deeper than love. Love can end: friendship never ends.
Tomorrow we may hate the people we love today — but someone who is a friend can never become an enemy. If he becomes an enemy, then there was no friendship in the first place. The relationships of friendship are of the navel. They are relationships of deeper and unknown realms.
That's why the Buddha did not tell people to love each other. He talked about friendship. He said that there should be friends in your life. Somebody even asked the Buddha, “Why do you not call it love?” And he replied, “Friendship is a much deeper thing than love. Love can end, friendship never ends.”
Love binds, friendship, gives freedom. Love can enslave somebody. It can possess, it can become a master. Friendship does not become someone’s master; it does not hold anyone back. It does not imprison, it frees. Love becomes a bondage because the lovers insist that the other should not love anyone else but them.Friendship has no such insistence. One man can have thousands of friends, millions of friends because friendship is a vast, very deep experience. It arises from the deepest centre of life. That is why friendship ultimately becomes the greatest way to take you towards the divine. Someone who is a friend to all will sooner or later reach to the divine because his relationships are happening with everyone’s navel centre. One day, he is bound to be connected to the navel centre of the universe.One’s relationships in life should not be merely intellectual; they should not be the only heartful — they should be deeper, they should be of the navel.
Courtesy: Osho

Sunday, October 27, 2013

Leadership in turbulent times:

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Ship sails smooth in silent waters, and everyone overboard enjoys the ride but captain enjoys when the ship is in turbulent waters. The calm sea always supports the ship, but it is turbulence which throws ship either far ahead in the direction of the journey or somewhere far away. It all depend on the skills and action of captain and staff.
In my organization every manager is captain, we make motor cars. Someone said vehicle industry is like an economy wheels. State of vehicle industry in any economy indicates the health of organization. Let me take you all through the vista of thoughts, which I think could be useful to us (my organization ).
Organization is synchronous group small departments, which have different goals and initiatives but all support the business strategy of organization. We have following departments :
1. Dreamers : They with the help of “Nomads” (marketing), give the birth to a concept, to a requirement. this department have many sub-departments too but for our ease we will call all of them “dreamers”
2. Creators: They are the one who understand and rewrite the dreamers dream in the language of science. Geek once.
3. Makers: They are the one who take the conceptualized dream and give shape to this dream.
Let’s start the journey: 
“Batten down the hatches and seek safety from hatched eggs”. Manger should stay away from this adage. Turbulence in business always come up with opportunities .The key word is stay connected to market viz a viz customer.
Turbulence doesn’t mean chaos but yes it can create chaos if we don’t act accordingly, as chaos occurs because of unpreparedness. Turbulence defines the unpredictable and sometimes undetectable patterns that external factors place upon businesses across the world in these uncertain times,”
1. Develop early warning system: find what is happening at customer’s customer end and vendor’s vendor end. Study complete value chain and identify what is happening in terms of cost and pricing downstream.
2. Engage in all scenario based strategy instead of best and worst case analysis.
3. Prioritize key scenarios and develop strategy: It should be continuous activity. Planned and evolved on quarterly basis.
4. Decision should be based on cut/delay; increase/accelerate and outsource.

But for our organizations, we have to concentrate on following points :

Engage all stakeholders, All mean All:

Identify all stake holder, all mean all. Internal and external too. Internal includes all of above mentioned departments . External customers : competitors, government, consumer, weather and business scenarios.

Once identified bring them all on one page and break the silos. Big organizations usually face this issue. Being big departments, every department in the organization have it’s own BSC (balanced score card) to maintain so in the race of maintaining this departments lose the big picture and organization fails to achieve the set goals.

Survival or growth :

In volatile market, trends changes overnight so agility to align oneself could help organization to survive but survival is the hygiene, growth is the target.
Scan the horizon, find the value and create the opportunity”
Look deep into: - Engage market shareholders, Market requirements, Customer explicit and implicit needs, Customer behavior, Global socio-political picture, Organization’s current strategy, Global trends, reprioritization of projects, challenge unproductive activities, honest assessment of future plans and consumers needs and latent requirements.
To have solid ground organization should first survive, which means lets put major resources on few main projects and let them make successful rather than trying to catch all rabbits.
0- Read market requirements and make sure to deliver what is required by the market not by any senior individual .
0- Once requirements are set, Give full support to achieve what is set.lets not teams wander .

Policies and decision making:

Decisions should be made at right level not at highest level.
Policy maker or decision taker have all the onus to steer organization in foggy times but decision makers should be few only. not more than 5-6. On organizational level, keep making the decision and maintain the momentum. Avoid policy paralysis, to minimize the momentary losses. Policy paralysis can have negative effect on the organizations; it can be more dangerous when the disconnection extends to middle management.
organizations should not postpone planned initiative and plan budget cutting without measuring the status and opportunity cost of the initiatives. Stay focused on the performance and has difficult conversations within the organization.
Pass the buck to middle management, empower the people and accountability should be pushed harder and down till the bottom level of organization. Momentum of activities should be maintained, core activities and project should never be halted.

find opportunities in uncertainty:

Extract latent needs of customer and commercialize the need into opportunity. Opportunities don’t wait around for good time to come; organizations should invest in human resources and create opportunities from uncertainty and capitalized on it.
Special attention should be paid to following:

Human resources:

Quality, experienced and home grown talent should be retained at any cost during turbulent period. We should make policies conducive so that employees can breath easily. we should empower them in this time.Unite them in this hour of need. Organization should be very careful, as usually tough time brings lot of tough but unnecessary policies which not only demoralize employees but force them to leave the group.  

Supply chain

should be maintained or at least infrastructure should be maintained so that after revival period; things can be run smoothly.
It is just not enough, one have to get into each and every thread of the organization to bring the killer instinct but for leaders, leaders should shift gears from command and control to empathy, humility, authenticity and compassion.
Tough time never remains there but it decide who will stay there or who will not!

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Rain of oneness

"Let me drench myself in the rain of self awareness,let my eyes get cleaned up with the drops of gratitude. Let my soul be imbibe with joy of oneness "

Monday, September 30, 2013

Drops of wisedom

"Wisedom is omnipresent, We are smart enough to shield ourselves from it "
Sunny@photography 

Thursday, December 13, 2012

I wish you…


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I wish you enough; enough of everything.
I wish you enough smiles to keep your cheeks tight,
I wish you enough happiness to keep yourself always upright,
I wish you enough pain so that you can treasure all small  bright spots of your life,
I wish you enough of sunshine to keep your days bright,
I wish you enough of moonlight that you can enjoy the darkness of night,
I wish you enough of success so that can catch the stars,
I wish you enough of failure so that you can appreciate your success,
I wish you enough love to keep you full till the dusk of  your life,

Sunny


Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Daffodils: by William Wordsworth

Courtesy to IRISH MEDICAL TIME

I wandered lonely as a cloud
That floats on high o'er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host, of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.
Continuous as the stars that shine
And twinkle on the milky way,
They stretched in never-ending line
Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.
The waves beside them danced; but they
Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:
A poet could not but be gay,
In such a jocund company:
I gazed--and gazed--but little thought
What wealth the show to me had brought:
For oft, when on my couch I lie
In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye
Which is the bliss of solitude;
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils.

Saturday, December 1, 2012

DRUGS vs PUNJAB?

Punjab, The first mention of the Sanskrit equivalent of Punjab, occurs in the great epic, The Mahabharata, As the 'Pancha-nada' 'country of five rivers’. PJphy
The most sought out area in time of history of HINDUSTAN. Let it be Alexander, Mughals,  British or Indian and Pakistan government in 1947. Gifted with the green lush fields, gardens, fertile land, animals and one of the most dynamic community. As names say, Punjab, Land of five rivers and saints. Out of 16 rivers in united INDIA (before 1947), Punjab have the honour of having six rivers. The Nile, only rivers  has been ensuring  Egypt's past, present and future, just a one river and here in this small part of the world we have 6 big rivers, Isn't it a gift of god to this land?  
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People of this place, what should I say? Everybody know what being Punjabi means? The people full of exuberance, joie de vivre, bravery, and strength. People, who know how to enjoy life, care free, fun loving, Musicians, dancers, Gourmets and as much as adjectives one can think.Because of strategy location and war history of this area, People of this field have set them selves in a set behavior, which is also known as the spirit of Punjab. They are aggressive, go getter and colorful. Don’t plan much for future but belief in enjoying presently.
This state too had or have her quota of good and wrong time, 1980’s was the time when instead of water blood was flowing in the rivers of Punjab. That was black era of “Militancy”, I would call it a political fiasco but by the 1990’s Punjab was free of militancy and again came back to the old tune of 1970’s “green revolution”. Once again peace and harmony resorts on this land. Militancy had good and bad effect on the demography of Punjab but masses wishes to move forward and wants to catch the bus of liberalization.
“ Blind race for materialistic growth will leads to no where instead leads one to ditch of moral & ethical degradation “ and that’s what happened in last 15 years in Punjab.
The curse of the land “ DRUGS ADDICTION.”
See how things have changed because of this devil
Kids who use to play daring games are now playing with puffs of heroin and cocaine .
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Herds and herds of youngsters used to attend Indian Army recruitment camps are now herding to insert injections in their bodies.
The food for which Punjabi’s are world famous is replaced by what?
“73.5% of Punjab’s youth is addicted to drugs.”The yearly consumption of alcohol in Punjab is touching 29 Crore bottles making it one of the highest per capita consumers of alcohol in the world! .A multi million drug nexus operating under the noses of the Border Security Force, The Directorate of Revenue Intelligence, The Narcotics Control Bureau and the Intelligence Bureau, leaving them as a mere viewer to Punjab’s erosion. 
As per “United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime” Punjab is world largest transit point of opium and at the same time India have the highest share in consumption of opium too, and major pie of this charts obviously comes from Punjab.
Now the question is why? What happened in last decade that Punjabi youth embraced drugs? And why still the government is not raising the alarm ?
I am reading UN’s world drug report and I have some personal experience of the ill effects of drug addiction. I will share my views on why part of the question in next post but believe me drug addiction in Punjab is like ticking bomb which is about to explode. I see it as a fight between drugs addiction and Punjabi spirit of life and as a Punjabi, I want Punjab to win this war as we won against Militancy but this time enemy is much stronger and invisible. TCR PUNJAB.